Tuesday, July 17, 2012

Are you being nice or being kind?

"Always be kind. But think twice before you're "nice." Nice, is often a mask of pleasantness we put over negative feelings. Nice is often a form of self-rejection. Real kindness feels good. It's when we give because we want to give and we give in ways that respect everyone, including us."

Tama J. Kieves


Wow! I read this quote on Tama Kieves' website and it really made me think. We're told to be nice so often; but really we need to be kind, don't we? You can link to her site here:
http://www.awakeningartistry.com/index.php




3 comments:

  1. Something good to think about...

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  2. You can, generally, BE NICE. But, it takes more effort and love to be kind.
    I believe you should always try to make a situation better and it needs to come from a place of love. It's not always easy but, as the quote said,"Real kindness feels good." I like that.
    Good thoughts. I will check out Tama's website. Thanks.

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  3. never thought about it in that way but oh so true!

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